Girls go through so many changes physically, cognitively, and emotionally during their educational journeys. The counseling program aims to assist our girls with the challenges and opportunities each stage of development brings. We do this by helping each girl understand herself and the changes going on within and around her. Our goal is to help each girl reach her individual potential and equip her to be successful personally, academically, and professionally in the future. The counseling team provides student support services through one-on-one interactions, group discussions, lessons in a classroom and supplemental programming during free class periods. Common topics include the following:

Identifying personal needs

Effective communication

Recognizing and cultivating healthy relationships

Empathy training

Conflict resolution

Managing anxious thoughts and stress management

Time management 


Self-esteem, self-awareness, and self-compassion

Finding your voice

Substance prevention 

Emotional intelligence and well-being 

Allison Parker, US Counselor

Andrea Stackpole, MS Counselor

Brennan Adrian, EC/LS Counselor

"In the lower school years, each girl is increasing her awareness of self and others. The lower school counseling program is designed to equip each student with a better understanding of her own needs and provide healthy coping strategies for all life brings her way. This is done through classroom guidance lessons, small group discussions, and individual counseling time. Classroom guidance topics are focused on the girls' social and emotional development and are determined by student need and teacher or parent feedback.  Students are seen individually after a parent, teacher, or self-referral." 

Brennan Adrian, Lower School Counselor

"The pre-teen and early teen years are ones of growth and transition. This is an exciting, but sometimes stressful time in a girl’s life marked by many physical, emotional and social changes. The goal of the counseling and wellness program in the middle school is to help our girls navigate these changes while offering support and strategies to be successful in each stage of development. In Middle School, we build upon concepts learned in Lower School and continue to discuss topics such as stress management, conflict resolution, organization skills, identifying learning styles and study habits, mindfulness, self-esteem and body image, emotional well-being, and substance prevention. Our goal is to build a strong foundation for our girls as they transition into adolescence." 

Andrea Stackpole, Middle School Counselor


"The high school years are filled with demands on girls' lives academically, socially, emotionally, physically and spiritually. The Upper School Counseling program strives to come alongside and support our students as they learn to balance competing pulls on their time and energy.  Through classroom guidance, special programs, small group, and individual meetings, students continue to build strong social competency, emotional resilience, and self-advocacy skills. The counseling team works collaboratively with faculty, students, and their families to meet each student where she is and to provide individual intervention, crisis support, and referrals to the outside mental health community if needed."

Allison Parker '83 P'14'16'21, Upper School Counselor